Hold it right there!

Blog 17

4-30-18

I have always wanted to be a dad and have kids to raise. I can remember even as a small child planning things I would do with my own children. I guess I just like to plan ahead!

我一直想当爸爸,抚养自己的孩子们。我还记得在我很小的时候我就打算以后怎么和孩子们相处。我想我只是喜欢提前计划(未雨绸缪)。

However, some things you cannot plan for. For example I never planned for the situation I had last week with my six year old son. You see, normally, my wife takes the kids to school in the morning and I pickup in the afternoon. My wife had some work training, and so I was taking kids to school all week.

但是有一些事情计划不了。例如我从没有计划过上个星期和我六岁的儿子在一起的情形。通常,我妻子早上送孩子们去学校,我下午接他们回家。这个星期每一个早上我太太都有一些工作培训,所以这个星期我每天都要送孩子们去学校。

Monday, it was a bit crazy, and everyone was late. Tuesday was a little better, but I was still late getting to work. Wednesday the same. By Thursday morning, I am pretty frustrated.

星期一有一点混乱,我和孩子们都迟到了。星期二,好一点,但我还是上班迟到了。星期三是一样的乱。到了星期四的早上,我已经很沮丧。

It is a situation any parent can identify with. I was pointing my finger at my kids and saying “you guys had better eat and I don’t want to be late to work again!” In that moment, I was frustrated and my tone of voice was not good. I had had enough.

这个情况所有的父母都可以理解。我指着我的孩子说:“你们最好吃早饭,你们不要再让我迟到了!“ 在那时候,我很沮丧,语气也不好。我受够了。

Suddenly, my six year old holds up hand. He looked me right in the eyes and with a calm voice said “Hold it right there Dad. What is more important to you…” then he held out his two little hands, palms up, like a scale.

突然我的六岁儿子举起手来。他直视我的眼睛冷静地说:“爸爸等一下。什么对你更重要…”

然后他伸出两只小手像天平一样举了起来。

He then said “What is more important to you Dad, being late to work … or … having a family where everyone loves you?”

Whoa!!!

他然后说:“爸爸,哪一个是更重要,上班迟到…或者…有家人都爱你?“

哇啊啊啊!

This is either the most clever or the sweetest kid ever (maybe both). In all my planning, I never imagined such delightful children.

这是最聪明或最贴心的孩子(也许都是)。在我以前的计划里,我从来没有计划过这么好的孩子。

Blue skies in Beijing and the power of deciding.

Blog 15

4-11-18.

One of the most interesting things about my recent trip to Beijing was the sky – totally blue skies! Unbelievable! In the past, every trip to Beijing meant me getting sick from the pollution. Why are the skies blue now?

Back in November the Chinese government banned coal burning for all areas around Beijing. Just like that, the terrible pollution problems of Beijing are solved. This is one of the most amazing things about the Chinese government. When they make a decision to change something, it changes immediately. It is unbelievable. I don’t think any other large country in the world can make changes like this.

Another good example: I remember about 10 years ago, both China and USA both said they were going to invest in high speed rail. USA debated and talked about how and where to build rail, whereas China got to work building. China now has 25,000 km (16,000 mi) of high speed rail connecting the entire country built over 10 years. How much does the US have? In the US we have zero.

That’s the characteristics of a decisive government. It can be a good thing or a bad thing but you are guaranteed things will happen.

一件很有意思的事情是北京的天最近都是蓝色的。真不可思议!以前每一次去北京那里的污染让我生病。为什么现在天都是蓝色的?

去年十一月中国政府觉得北京污染太多。因此政府开始禁止燃煤。很快北京的污染问题大部分解决了。我觉得这是中国政府最有意思的特点。如果中国政府要变化一个事情,可能马上改变。真不可思议!我觉得在世界上可能没有其他的国家能这么快做这么大的变化。

还有一个好例子,十年以前中国和美国都说了我们要做高铁。在美国我们一直在说这件事而没有做,然而,中国决定开始做高铁。现在中国有25000公里的高铁。中国所有的城市都有高铁。美国有多少高铁呢?美国现在有0公里高铁。

这是决定性的政府的特点。我觉得可能有好的地方可能有坏的地方,但是不管怎么样保证活动做完了。

Eating Crab with Chopsticks

Blog #6
2-7-2018

I learned how to use chopsticks when I was a kid because I thought they were neat.  Now, whenever I travel in China, people are always amazed at how proficient I am as a foreigner with chopsticks.  I’ve never really had trouble eating anything with chopsticks until one night in Shanghai.  
My wife and I were meeting a friend of a friend at a restaurant.  She ordered the food, and out came hard shelled crab . . . and nothing but chopsticks.  I said – OK, I have no idea how to eat this with chop sticks.  Our host was sitting directly across the table from me.  She smiled and said ‘ you just use your teeth the break the shell’ and then she smiled a big smile . . . Every single one of her front teeth was broken.  It was like looking at a zig zag jagged line. I guess she really enjoyed to eat crab.
I left the dinner hungry that night.

我小时候学习用筷子,学会了,并且学得很好。现在我去中国的时候,中国人常常说”哎呀,这个外国人会用筷子!”。别人说,我拿筷子的方式是对的,可是我太太拿筷子的方式是错的。大部分时候用筷子没有遇到问题, 直到在上海一个晚上。 我和我的太太打算和一个朋友的朋友见面一起吃饭。她点了菜以后上了五只硬壳螃蟹。我们都用筷子,没有其他的。 我说了“好。我会筷子但是,我不知道怎么用筷子打开硬壳螃蟹。 我们的朋友坐在我对面。他说”没有问题!你就用你的牙打开。“ 然后她笑了笑。他的每颗牙齿都是坏的, 看起来很不整齐。我想她真的很喜欢吃螃蟹。这个晚上我没有吃饱。

Getting Cheated in Beijing, Part2

Post #4 Jan 21, 2018

(Make sure to read part #1 first:Getting cheated in Beijing, Part 1)

The next day, I looked at these bills – they did look super new, maybe just printed. I took them to the counterfeit bill detector in my hotel and they were in fact fake. I asked the hotel manager about it and he told me that the ATM does not dispense fake money.  Every bill in the ATM is accounted for as real.  He asked me, have you been in a taxi recently where the driver refused to take your money?  The taxi driver had cheated me. He switched the bills and I lost 500 Yuan!  The manager said he was sorry, this is a wide-spread scam in Beijing right now.

Below are pictures of the fake bills. It is easy to tell the difference by feel once you know they are fake. If you try to pay and someone gives your bills back to you, they are most likely trying to cheat you. Especially if they are a taxi driver.

 

#4 一月二十一号2018

第二天早上,我看了看我的钱。我的钱真的看起来很新。它们是从饭店的ATM机里取出来的,所以我用饭店的假币检测器我的一百块都是假的!我告诉饭店的老板,他说:先生,我们的ATM机没有假钱,ATM机不可能有假钱,每张一百块我们知道它的编号。你最近坐出租车没有?

他问:你的司机不愿意收你的钱吗?

他告诉我:最近在北京有很多出租车司机用这种方式骗钱。对不起。

我发现那个出租车司机换了我的钱。给了我假钱。

上面我放了照片我的假钱看起来是不是很真?你以前遇到过类似的事情没有?如果一个人不愿意收你的一百块或者他退还你的钱,就可能想骗你。特别是出租车司机。

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“No tourism allowed!” on the Great Wall

Blog post #2 Jan 13, 2018

This week I am in Beijing for a business trip. I have been to Beijing before, but on this trip I am excited to go back to the Great Wall. This time I went to a section of the Great Wall (mu tian yu) and got to see parts of the Wall that are not maintained. In fact, I went past the tourist area and on to the highest point of the Wall. A picture is below. So cool. It reminds me of how much I love hiking.

#2 一月十三号 2018

这个星期我在北京出差。我去过北京五次,这个周末我们打算再去看长城。现在我去慕田峪看看。这里人很少和可以看看没有维护的部分。长城上有一个牌子,牌子上写着游客勿进。但是我进去了!我去过了长城最高的地方。拍了很多漂亮的照片。很棒!它让我更喜欢远足。