Checklist for flying with small kids

Blog 18-19 combo
5-1-18

In our 50% Chinese 50% American household, we often travel with our young kids to China.  We have taken some long international flights, for example, getting back to my wife’s hometown can take 25-35 or more hours door to door.  Through these experiences we have learned a lot.  So, for this blog post, I wanted to write down some of the tips and tricks of travelling with small kids internationally.  These tips are focused on our own experience with kids that are 1 year up to about 6 years old.  We won’t cover the obvious (like requesting the bassinet for kids under two) and this article will probably change and evolve over time as we travel more and kids get bigger.

1. Food

Food is the first item because it is the most important one.  Every time the plane takes off or lands, the pressure change inside the plane causes kid’s ears to hurt.  However, if you just give them something to chew on or swallow, that allows kids to equalize the pressure in their ears, and makes their inner ear comfortable.  The ideal thing is something chewy they can eat a lot of that will not fill them up.  We find that Gerber puffs are excellent for this; the kids can eat a ton of them and never get full.  Beyond this, single serve snacks are great (whether you prepare them yourself in ziplocks or buy single serves).  The types of things we bring are: Cheerios, raisins, rice cakes, stuff like this.  Single serve is super convenient because you don’t have to worry about spilling and the unwrapping of each item is an activity for the kids.  We actually have a backpack that is almost totally filled with food for kids on these longs trips.

2. Toys 

We also bring a small number of cheap toys.  Because we bring cheap toys, we don’t mind if they get lost during the trip (which will invariably happen). For example: hot wheels cars, small puzzle, a small LEGO box set, all are good.  The dollar store is perfect for picking up small and disposable toys for taking on the plane.  If they get lost, no problem.

3. Pen & Paper

We have found that simple art supplies go a long way with children. For example, small stickers are cheap and light and will keep little finger busy for a long time peeling and sticking stickers onto paper.  For crayons, it’s worth it to find and buy these triangular cross section crayons as shown below.  They are super handy on the plane because they don’t roll!

4. Games

We don’t like electronic games and iPad for kids. Maybe I will write a separate post on this topic. A deck of mini uno cards can keep kids busy for a long time. Uno is also good because it doesn’t matter if you lose some cards here or there, and two, three, or more people can play together.  We also like to pickup game books that have coloring, tic-tac-toe, word search, connect the dots, and other games inside.

5. Inside the airport

During layovers, we try to find a children’s area if they have one nearby.  If not, an excellent toy to play in some open space is an inflatable beachball.  This packs flat, weighs nothing, and after blowing it up, you can play all sorts of games with it.  It’s been a super helpful on all of our layovers and delays.

6. Medicine

You can and probably should bring all types of medicines along for kids, especially when travelling abroad and not knowing what you will be able to get your hands on, what dosages, etc. For our kids, a key must have on the place is something for their nose like Vaseline.  Our kids both get nose bleeds, and the dry air on the plane really exacerbates it.  I can write a future story about this . .. but for now, I would just recommend bringing Vaseline or Ayer for the nose.

7. Other helpful items

There are tons of other little things we have found very helpful, for example: babywipes (out of diapers and still using these) and clean empty ziplock bags.  Ziplock bags are super helpful for when you kids takes two bites out of that apple and is full, you can just pop it in a bag and save it for later.

That’s it!  What types of tips do you have for travelling with kids?  Please let me know in the comments!

我们家是百分之五十中国百分之五十美国,所以我们经常跟孩子们去中国旅游。现在我们坐过了很多航班,包括很长的国际航班。例如,我们去了太太的老家,需要坐飞机差不多二十五到三十五个小时。通过这些经验我们学到了很多东西。今天的博客我想分享关于孩子们坐飞机的建议。

1)食品。食品是第一个因为食品是最重要的。每一次飞机起飞或者降落的时候,压力变化让孩子的耳朵痛了。如果给孩子们吃喝东西,可以降低对孩子耳朵的压力。让他们耳朵舒服。大多他们需要一些东西咀嚼和吞咽。我们发现小宝贝的饼干是最好的。Gerber的泡芙饼干是我们最喜欢的,因为很好吃,吃很多也不会吃地很饱。我们也带很多小吃。我们觉得分开装很方便,可能买或者自己准备:葡萄干,Cheerios, 米饭糕,等等 … 所有的小吃多很好吃。我们准备好的小吃放在食品背包里面。

2)玩具。我们也带一些便宜的玩具。因为带便宜的玩具,所以我们不担心玩具弄丢。例如: 小车,小拼图,小乐高积木(LEGO)盒子,都可以。你可以在两元店买很多便宜的玩具带到飞机上。如果玩具弄丢了没关系。

3)笔和纸。我们发现简单的美术用品对孩子很有用。例如,带一些之,很多小贴纸很便宜也很轻。很多小贴纸他们会一直玩让他们很忙。关于蜡笔应该买三角尖头蜡笔,下面给你看一个照片。它们最好因为它们不会到处滚来滚去。买它们很值得。

4)游戏。我们不喜欢给孩子们玩太多手机游戏,因为手机游戏创造出很多问题。关于孩子玩手机的问题我可以写其他的博客。我们喜欢玩卡片的游戏。UNO是一个很好的很好的卡片的游戏,因为可能丢了一个两个卡片没关系还可以玩。这个游戏两个三个后者四个人以上都可以一起玩。我们也带游戏书。这本书里面每一页有一些游戏,例如:三子棋,找不同,看图连点,等等。

5)在飞机场里面。我们觉得第最重要的玩具是一个小充气沙滩球。你有中途期间,在等下一个航班的期间,你可以打开你的背包,用嘴巴吹球,跟孩子们玩球。

6)药.  你可能带很多种孩子需要用的药。对我们孩子们最重要的是凡士林(Vaseline)。在飞机上空气很干。我们的孩子们经常鼻子出血,所以我们总是带一些凡士林(Vaseline)放在鼻子里面,保护他们的鼻子别太干了。

7) 其他物品。例如:婴儿湿巾, 纸巾, 自封袋,都很方便。我们孩子们吃一般的苹果吃饱了,我们会放在自封袋里,等一会儿孩子饿了想吃了。可以从自封袋里拿出来给他们继续吃。这样可以别浪费食物。

好了。你喜欢带什么东西跟孩子们去旅游?请告诉我。

Hold it right there!

Blog 17

4-30-18

I have always wanted to be a dad and have kids to raise. I can remember even as a small child planning things I would do with my own children. I guess I just like to plan ahead!

我一直想当爸爸,抚养自己的孩子们。我还记得在我很小的时候我就打算以后怎么和孩子们相处。我想我只是喜欢提前计划(未雨绸缪)。

However, some things you cannot plan for. For example I never planned for the situation I had last week with my six year old son. You see, normally, my wife takes the kids to school in the morning and I pickup in the afternoon. My wife had some work training, and so I was taking kids to school all week.

但是有一些事情计划不了。例如我从没有计划过上个星期和我六岁的儿子在一起的情形。通常,我妻子早上送孩子们去学校,我下午接他们回家。这个星期每一个早上我太太都有一些工作培训,所以这个星期我每天都要送孩子们去学校。

Monday, it was a bit crazy, and everyone was late. Tuesday was a little better, but I was still late getting to work. Wednesday the same. By Thursday morning, I am pretty frustrated.

星期一有一点混乱,我和孩子们都迟到了。星期二,好一点,但我还是上班迟到了。星期三是一样的乱。到了星期四的早上,我已经很沮丧。

It is a situation any parent can identify with. I was pointing my finger at my kids and saying “you guys had better eat and I don’t want to be late to work again!” In that moment, I was frustrated and my tone of voice was not good. I had had enough.

这个情况所有的父母都可以理解。我指着我的孩子说:“你们最好吃早饭,你们不要再让我迟到了!“ 在那时候,我很沮丧,语气也不好。我受够了。

Suddenly, my six year old holds up hand. He looked me right in the eyes and with a calm voice said “Hold it right there Dad. What is more important to you…” then he held out his two little hands, palms up, like a scale.

突然我的六岁儿子举起手来。他直视我的眼睛冷静地说:“爸爸等一下。什么对你更重要…”

然后他伸出两只小手像天平一样举了起来。

He then said “What is more important to you Dad, being late to work … or … having a family where everyone loves you?”

Whoa!!!

他然后说:“爸爸,哪一个是更重要,上班迟到…或者…有家人都爱你?“

哇啊啊啊!

This is either the most clever or the sweetest kid ever (maybe both). In all my planning, I never imagined such delightful children.

这是最聪明或最贴心的孩子(也许都是)。在我以前的计划里,我从来没有计划过这么好的孩子。